This Blog is Going Back to Cali…

July 22, 2008 – 12:07 pm

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Yep, you read right. 7 days and counting we are going back to Cali.

The home inspector, termite inspector and radon guy all descended on our house last week and the buyers seem happy with the results. I’m up to my ears in boxes, packing paper and tape. Moving ourselves with really pay off money wise, but it means a lot of work. I’m just trying to remind myself of the end result.

So….I’m not sure how much writing I’ll get done in the meantime. I’m sure you have noticed that I’ve been pretty quiet lately. But I’ll be back soon. Oh-and before then I’ll install the snazzy header that J. Money made for me.  Don’t worry, I won’t keep you waiting too long, it’s pretty sweet!

In the meantime here’s a little song to keep you entertained. It mentions California and about a million other states we’ll visit next week on our road trip from North Carolina to the West Coast.

Dani California 

Relief on the Way for One Anxious Homeseller

July 9, 2008 – 10:45 pm

Sold39 showings.
1 Open House.
112 days on the market.
Multiple “semi-offers” from deal-seekers looking for a steal.
And finally, one real offer from a family looking to move in soon.

I have so many feelings right now I’m just a basket of emotions. Sadness because this is the first house we bought and have made so many memories here. Relieved that I won’t have to speed clean the house in 15 minutes and hurry (can a 7 month pregnant woman really hurry?) out the house with 3 kids for a showing. Thankful that the offer will pay for the house and the realtor fees with a teeny tiny bit left over. And excitement and anxiety for the future.

Selling this house has truly been a roller-coaster ride. Know the saying “Always a bridesmaid, never a bride”? Well, that would be our house. We’ve been #2 on so many buyers list, but never #1. We are constantly rejected for new construction. The number of brand new developments here is a bit overwhelming, and is a source of intense competition for resale homes. We’ve gone along for the ride, kept the house immaculate and dropped the price even.

Due to some storms and power outages in the area the Realtors have had trouble faxing the contacts to each other. It’s 10:24 pm and I’m going to sleep soon. Hopefully the buyers won’t change their mind overnight. I’m at peace with the situation regardless, because if they do then it just wasn’t meant to be. For now though, it looks like in about 3 weeks we will be moving 2,000+ miles to the other side of the country.

Image by cccdebbie

Good News - But Not What We Expected At All

June 26, 2008 – 8:58 am

It’s been 90 some odd days that our house has been on the market. We have come *this* close to getting an offer many times. But it seems that our 3 year old house loses out to the new construction homes (with itty bitty lots) every time. It’s been frustrating for sure.

Today my husband called me from work really excited. For a split second I thought maybe he had found a buyer or we had gotten an offer. Nope. But I think the news we did get is as good as (or even better!) than an offer.

My husband got.A RAISE!!!

This was completely and totally unexpected. With the US economic slowdown and the budget-tightening at my husband’s company he thought no one would get raises anytime soon. We are shocked and surprised, but it’s a very good thing.

And other good news is just a couple weeks ago my husband got a performance bonus award. The award is only given when another employee nominates someone. My husband works very hard at his job and it’s nice to see that others notice it.

What Are We Going To Do With It?

  • Well, first the government will get a nice little chunk of the raise.
  • We are contributing 4% to our 401k to get the company match so that will come out too.
  • Anything remaining will go towards paying off our debt a little bit quicker.

While the “For Sale” sign in front of our house seems to have become a permanent lawn fixture; we’re excited about what the future holds and wherever it may (or may not) lead us. We had yet another offer go to a new construction home instead of our house today, but the news about my husband’s pay raise made the disappointment disappear.

Tips for Staying Out of Debt

June 24, 2008 – 2:11 pm

Today I get to share with you a guest post by Miranda Marquit who edits information on debt consolidation at DestroyDebt.com. Thanks to Miranda for the wonderful post!

Tips for Staying Out of Debt

It is easier stay out of debt than to get out of debt. And once you *are* out of debt, for some people it is a constant battle not to slip back into old habits. The best way to stay out of debt is to develop good habits, so that there isn’t room for the bad money habits in the future. Here are some things that you can do to develop a habit of staying out of debt:

*Know your income and your expenses, and spend less than you earn.*

This seems like common sense, but many people do not have a true idea of how much they make, and how much they are spending. Personal finance software, a monthly budget and other forms of expense tracking can help you keep tabs on what you are spending your money on. Prioritize and cut back (or make more money) so that you are spending less than you earn each month.

*Pay for the bills and the other needs first.*

Figure up your bill schedule and then plan for that first. Set aside enough money (if you can, pay all your bills as soon as you get paid or when they arrive) to cover your bills — utilities, mortgage, loans, etc. — as soon as you receive your paycheck. Also, other things that you should consider putting high on your list of priorities include:

- Retirement account.
- Emergency fund.
- Savings goals (vacation, toys, etc.).
- Groceries.
- Transportation costs.

Prioritize the rest of your expenses and your wants so that the least important are at the bottom of your list. If you don’t have the money to get to them, they don’t get funded that month.

*Be wise with credit cards.*

One of the things that helped me get my credit card spending under control was when I started deducting the charges from my checking account, rather than my credit card account balance. If I use credit card to pay for something, I actually enter the money as coming out of the checking account. Then, when the monthly statement arrives, I can easily pay off the entire balance. I get my rewards points (free ticket to Europe soon), and I don’t pay interest. Plus, taking the money from my checking account is a regular reminder that when I pay with a credit card, I’m still using my own money. It’s easy to forget that with credit cards.

Another rule we have in my house is that when we buy big ticket items that we need (like the computer I use for work), they should be paid off in two months if we use the credit card. For big ticket items that we don’t need (like a TV), we save up until we have enough to pay off the balance on the credit card after we buy it.

*Look for good deals*

This is different from looking for “cheap.” It is also different from buying something because “it’s such a bargain!” Consider your purchases (especially the large ones) from the standpoint of whether it’s a wise use of money. Some things to consider:

- Is the quality reasonable?
- How often will you use it?
- Dollar for dollar, is it a good value?
- Is it something you can wait to buy until it goes on sale?
- Do you really need it right now?

When you consider these items it can help you delay a purchase that may set off the cycle of debt. Plus, it will get you in the habit of thinking through your purchases rather than impulse buying.

If you do end up borrowing (for a car or a home or something else), shop around for the best interest rate and a loan without prepayment penalties. That way you can pay it off sooner.

Written by Miranda Marquit
DestroyDebt.com

No More Pencils, No More Books…

June 10, 2008 – 11:08 pm

No More Teacher’s Dirty Looks!

It’s been a long week this past week. Oh wait- it’s only Tuesday you say?

My oldest two boys have been out of school for one week. My husband is now on his second week of travel for work. I got lazy for lunch and we had McDonalds (drive-thru) for lunch after I picked the kids up from camp. So let’s take a look at the budget shall we?

Half day week-long camp for 2 kids - $260
Lunch for 1 adult and 3 kids at McDonalds - $14.
Gas used while sitting in drive-thru line - $1 million (ok, not really…but more than if I had parked and walked in)

Sanity - Still intact.
Budget - Looking a little ragged.

I still have the rest of the summer to keep them busy and have fun without killing the budget. I have a 9 year old, 7 year old and 2 year old. Any ideas???

New Design

I’ve changed things up a bit here on Working for Financial Freedom. Actually, I can’t really say “I” did anything, because Mrs. Micah did all the work. She’s a whiz with design and was able to do things today that would have taken me months to do. Thank-you Mrs. Micah!

If you are reading this in a reader you’ll have to take a peek. If you are a Firefox user, everything should look fine. If you use IE, certain versions will look wonky. I’m really sorry, maybe you could join us over here on the dark side?

Good Reading

Since I haven’t written much recently I’ll share some links where you can find some good reads.

I participated in two carnivals over the past week. Pinyo at Moolanomy hosted the Carnival of Debt Reduction and shared my story about Target and a pair of scissors. My story of home-selling frustration was an Editor’s Pick at the Carnival of Money Stories at Finance Gets Personal.

We seem to be falling into a routine now so I should be able to start writing more often. I used to depend on an afternoon naptime to do my writing. With the oldest two home during that time now I’ve had to adjust a bit. To all you moms & dads of many, you have my utmost respect!